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Chim, you're a very nice person, so I'm going to go easy on the reasons.
You come across as very attention-seeking, it's not very normal behavior to randomly come up to a person and ask them who they should e-date on garry's mod because you are simply bored.
A massive red flag for me here is that you keep asking about meeting myself and others quite often in reality, while you should consider taking the hint that some people like to keep their private life, Private. Listening in on private conversations and dm'ing afterward is really weird behavior.
If you want me to consider changing my opinion / view, I would advise you to stop playing this" I'm a female in Garry's mod" role and just act normally like anybody else would.
Ps: Please don't take any offense from this reply, but I have to be honest and evaluate. From my experience towards you, as i stated above you're a very nice person and i don't wish you anything bad.